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My Built Of Barnwood Ian Cross – BOB

Posted by Heather Manning On May - 4 - 2012

It got here today! The first Ian cross I had ordered in yellow from Built of Barnwood. Totally stoked when I opened up my mailbox and there was a box.

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Is that not gorgeous?

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And it works really well with the decorations in my kitchen. (I know the black/pink sign doesn’t :) and i just noticed that battery, oops.) Yes, the purple beaded cross started out as a rosary I bought in Mexico. My kids were infatuated with it and now it’s just a small portion of its former glorious self. The picture is one similar to the one my grandma had hanging over her kitchen table. I forgot we had the same one when I was younger until we were cleaning out some of the old buildings on my parents’ land. I found it, begged for it, put it back together, and hung it above my table, just like my grandma.

I cannot wait until my green one gets here!

In my box, besides a fabulous picture of the guys was something that caught my nose’s attention before it caught my eyes’. This wonderful smelling candle!

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Who knew citrus and sage made such an intoxicating combination?

100% soy candles made in the USA but poured into the most wonderful pottery containers that can be refilled, reused and repurposed! These are the most awesome decorative and incredible smelling candles you will ever find. It is 2.5 ounces and burns for approximately 20+ hours! The mini-votive pottery measures over 2 inches all around.

I did a little search and found them in BOB’s EBay store. They start at $4 for auction or $6 for buy it now, a price I would gladly pay.

Remember that when you shop with BOB that you are doing so much good. You are buying a product made with wood that otherwise would have been disposed of and you are helping the IS Foundation because some of the proceeds go over to help them, one of my favorite charities!

Get Connected:

Built Of Barnwood
IS Foundation
BOB on Facebook

Dear Mr(s) FTC (wo)man: I received no compensation for this post. I wasn’t asked to post anything. This is me supporting a very cool business all on my own, full disclosure and all. :)

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How Do You Deal With Whining?

Posted by Heather Manning On May - 3 - 2012

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Looks like an angel doesn’t she?

For the most part she is the one I can rely on to help me without being asked more than once. She’s my one who knows where her stuff is 97% of the time.

She is also my biggest whiner. My 5 and 3 year old cannot even keep up. She has it down to an art form.

I don’t remember being a big whiner and I think it’s because my dad didn’t put up with whining. Neither did my mom. I don’t remember any of us whining like Kat does. My mom might remember differently, but that’s my story and I am totally sticking to it.

Normally when she whines I tell her to leave my space if she is going to act like that, if she won’t leave my space, I leave hers. I don’t tolerate whining at all. Can’t stand it, don’t want to be near it. Ignoring tantrums is the best course of action, isn’t it? I swear that’s what the experts tell you to do.

(Have you ever seen a full grown woman do it? There’s a woman at Pato’s work who I heard whining to him when we were on he phone. I was hot! Um, tell her NO ONE whines to my husband but me, and I don’t whine, I get loud. I think Spanish is such a melodic language anyway and once you start begging or complaining, it is very easy to come off as whining. I’m not going to say it’s a cultural thing though because I have heard my share of English speaking women whine too. Honestly, when you’re past 16, it just sounds ridiculous. Point, nobody but our children can whine to my husband and they don’t get away with it either, thank you very much.)

Ignoring worked with my other 3 but Katiana is one persistent child. It’s like nails down a chalkboard to me.

This morning I told her to get up and get in the shower and it started. No stomping because she was laying down, but she did throw in some feet thrusts for emphasis. In this moment, I couldn’t just ignore it. Shower or not, she had to go to school. I ended up waking Pato up and he carried her to the shower and made her get in whining all the way.

So what do you do in that situation where something has to be done? Shower at night, I know, but she fell asleep on the couch before I even started getting them ready. Normally showers are at night.

Four kids and you think I would have found a solution,

Where’s that handbook she came with?

Have a great day!

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Short Soccer Saturday

Posted by Heather Manning On April - 28 - 2012

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Katiana (brown hair) playing with one of her friends before the game starts.


That, my friends, is what soccer should be about at 8. Making friends and having fun while learning.

Not worrying about which team has the advantage because of a slight slope in the field. (My game with the 5 year olds this morning.)

One last picture of my little soccer stud.

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Mom, watch me drop kick!

Child has been kicking the ball since he could walk at 9 months, yes, I said 9 months, and drop kicking it since before he was 2. He can’t wait to be old enough to play on a team. One more year buddy, one more year.

Have a great night!

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Easy And Free Bird Toy Tutorial

Posted by Heather Manning On April - 26 - 2012

Bird toys are expensive. If you’re like me, you started out buying your birds fancy toys, and if your birds are like my birds, they ignore anything they can’t shred.

Caged birds truly don’t need a lot to be happy (or as happy as they can be outside of being free): space to spread their wings, fresh food and water (if you only feed your birds seeds, please read this post on how to make bird bread,they need so much more. They also need toys, especially foraging toys. It’s what they do in the wild.

I have spent so much money on expensive toys that they paid no attention to, minus my lovebird Woodstock who loves bells. I finally got with the program and started making their toys. They aren’t pretty but they love them. They usually destroy them within a day or too.

This one is completely free. It’s all stuff you have lying around the house, thrown together into a toy that makes a bird happy as can be.

Start with a small box (for small birds) and stuff it with newspaper. After every crushed paper, throw in a bit of your birds favorite treat. In ours I put in a mix of their pellets and muesli. Every bird I have met loves (healthy) cereal (don’t use sugar covered cereal, healthy is the keyword. Mine are Cheerios nuts too.).


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When it’s full, make 2 holes in the back to fasten it, and one small hole in the front. I do that to start it for them so they can see there is something in the box to get to.

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Then attach it to the side of the cage securely. I use fishing line and as soon as they tear the box down, I remove the line so they don’t get talons stuck in there.

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Yes, the box magically changed. :) I already had one hung in my budgies’ cage and used that one.

Can I offer a piece of advice? If your cage isn’t big enough to put a box that size in it, you really should get your bird a bigger cage. Especially if they don’t get a lot of flight time in your house. My budgies never leave their cage. We’ve tried. They don’t leave their flock ever. Their cage is big enough to put a few of toddlers in so they can fly around a bit in it. I’d like to get a flight cage that size for each of my lovebirds, but even their cages they have now are big enough to put a couple if small dogs in. No, I haven’t tried. Junie and Suki would totally not appreciate it.

Other things I use: a wiffle ball with Chinese finger traps shoved through the holes (I also use newspaper because they are addicted to the finger traps and can tear one up in minutes.), an egg carton cut up (NOT styrofoam), one side of it filled with treats and then topped with another section of the egg carton so they have to forage to get to it, anything with straws (just put a clump together, it doesn’t have to be pretty, they’ll tear it up), a toilet paper tube covered in peanut butter and rolled in cereal and bird seed, a toilet paper tube stuffed with newspaper and straws. You probably see the theme here. Anything they can tear apart makes an awesome toy and mine prefer them to store bought toys any day.

For bigger parrots, I was the coolest thing once. Someone had attached a very sturdy box to the wall (out of cage time, huge!) and filled with shreds able things and treats to find.

Messy? Yes.

If you don’t like a messy animal, you definitely have the wrong pet. Every bird I have seen throws food out of the cage and regurgitates stuff on the wall behind the cage. :)

So, moral of the story, instead of paying a boatload of money on things your bird will just destroy, think outside of the box! Or in this case, think of what you can put inside the box.

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Cute Girls’ Hair Style

Posted by Heather Manning On April - 24 - 2012

Maybe not just girls’. I’d wear this for an easy hairdo that is less lazy looking than my normal ponytail flip thing I do.

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I was braiding Alyce’s hair this morning. Just 2 normal Pipi Longstocking braids minus the curling up at the ends. Kat had only brought me one hair tie, so I improvised. I connected them both at the bottom with the same band.

I started putting the braid up through the space between the braids, twisting and twisting through itself. Bobby pinned it, left the tail out for her, just cuz I liked the way it looked.

And voila, so easy, so cute on her.

I think I’m doing this to my own hair today. I’m going to leave my braids a mess (curly hair), leave the sides kind of messy, and a cute messy do I will have.

Messy, my favorite look.

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Excuse The Bad

Posted by Heather Manning On April - 23 - 2012

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In my blog post today I was going to talk about Jordan’s soccer game and how the ref… well, wasn’t my favorite ref ever. It was going to be a fabulous post full of complaining.

Then I happened across the new Ignite video my pastor just put up this week, which is excellent BTW and I recommend watching it. One of his points was excuse the bad. Move on from it. Let it go.

Excellent advice that I decided to take.

Instead of focusing on the bad parts that happened during the game, I’m moving on to the good.

The week before Jordan hadn’t played his best. We had a nice chat on the way home about how when he played his best, even if he gets scored on, it doesn’t matter. That ball got past 10 other kids (or 5 in this case, he’s playing small sided this season) before it reached him. He just needs to do his best. Even his favorite professional goalie gets scored on. It happens. It’s part of the game. When he doesn’t play his best, he gets to have more of those fun chats with his mom.

After yesterday’s game, I stand back on the fact that it is tough being the goalie’s mom. Ok, it’s tougher being the goalie, but I never flinch like I do when he is playing goalie when he plays any other position.

That child (can I still call him that at 13?) played hard. He was diving, rolling, doing everything he does when he is playing his best.

At one point he smacked his face into the goal post.

Another time he dove and had the balls in his hands when the opposing player couldn’t stop his momentum and kicked him in the mouth.

I couldn’t see what part of him had been hurt, but he looked stunned when he got up. I yelled at him and asked if he was ok and he nodded yes, but he didn’t look ok.

At that point, he had played almost the whole game as goalie, which is unusual. Usually he plays half and then goes in at another position.

After a few minutes, the coach pulled him out and he sat there for a bit before he went in to another position.

When he got in the car, his mouth was bloody, no teeth were loose, but he swore his eye tooth had been pushed back. Legs bleeding from diving, hands scratched up. And boy was he dirty and smelly. :)

He said, I think I’d be less beat up if I would have played tackle football without pads.

How am I moving past the bad? I’m leaving out a lot of what happened.

I’m focusing on the fact that he is ok and that he did go out and play his hardest. He had players and parents coming up to him after the game telling him how awesome he did (even after a loss), and he felt a sense of pride in himself, which I did not see in him the previous week. I was really really proud of him, and a bit worried about his physical well being again, if the truth be told. I’m telling you, it is really really hard to sit there and watch your kid hit the ground with a group of boys coming at him at full speed trying to kick the ball out of his fingers before he gets his body over it.

And he was extremely sore, face, knees, arms. So sore that for the first time since we bought this place he asked if he could soak in my corner tub.

He got out of doing chores last night. He hurt. I wasn’t going to make him empty the dishwasher.

I love that kid.

This more positive blog post message has been brought to you because of Pastor Jeff at Fusion Church. :)

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Happy Earth Day 2012

Posted by Heather Manning On April - 22 - 2012

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Copyright Dixie Allen

It’s Earth Day!

I was thinking last night about how we were going to celebrate. I can’t pledge not to drive anywhere today because we have church and then Jordan has a soccer game that is away, and it’s quite a few miles away. I have to drive more today than the couple of miles I drive on a normal day.

I decided that we are going to cut down on our electricity use buy not using anything that runs on electricity that isn’t necessary. (The refrigerator is not getting unplugged.). I’m thinking with my kids I am going to literally have to pull plugs out of the wall, which is a good idea to get used to for anyone. Unplugged means no juice at all. No electricity at all being used, better for your wallet, better for the environment. Win win!

We have no trees in our yard and I asked Pato to go buy a couple today. Everyone around me had these gorgeous old tall pine. Somehow our yard was missed when they were planting trees. I don’t know what these ones are my neighbor has, but they have these beautiful purple leaves. Pato is now on a mission to find me some.

We’ve already switched out our light bulbs. Back in our old apartment, they switched all of the bulbs throughout the entire complex a few years ago. It made a HUGE difference in our electric bill so Pato switched all of these here out when we bought the place. he is always on the lookout for deals on the bulbs. A while ago he found boxes of 12 for $5 at one of the home improvement stores. He bought 5 boxes. (You should see how many boxes of kitty litter he has in our shed when our grocery store ran an awesome sale on them. We’re good for at least a year. Longer on light bulbs.). They don’t last as long as they tried to tell us they would when they switched them out, but they still last a long time and the savings on our electric bill make it worth it. Just don’t drop one.

I need to recycle more. We already recycle our paper in our bird cages. I recycle aluminum cans. I need to put more effort into metal and plastics.

I was listening to WHO, our local radio show, yesterday. Van and Bonnie were doing their annual shredding of paper day at Aviva.

They were talking to someone who was in charge of the recycling that was going to happen to these semis full of shredded paper.

He was my age, 37, and he said something that made me stop and think. Baby boomers get recycling. People under 30 get recycling.

It’s my generation that’s struggling to catch up with those older and younger than us.

I thought of my parents who recycle almost everything. They have paper bags set up for plastics, metals, and paper. They store it in their garage when each bag is full until my dad can take it into the drop off location. They both unplug things when they are done using them. They’ve got the whole yellow mellow thing going on with the toilets to conserve water. I know, TMI, right, but they use less water than my family does. My mom goes 55 mph on the interstate to conserve gas. A lot of this helps in the wallet area, but a lot of it they do because it’s what we should be doing. Recycling doesn’t benefit them monetarily really, they do it because it needs to be done.

The generation after mine was the one to really start learning about our impact on the environment and then you get down to my kids’ generation and it’s standard learning in school. I get why they don’t struggle with it, but why do the baby boomers get it and we don’t? Why does my generation struggle with it so much? Why do we fight it and go as far as not wanting to believe what scientists say about climate change?

I think we need to come up with a way that humans can co-exist peacefully on this planet. I’m of the belief we need oil, but we have to drill safely. I’ll fight tooth and nail to try to help save animals from extinction. I hate all of the new developments that are wiping out what’s left of our natural land, even here in Iowa. I eat meat. I don’t hunt, but I am not against hunting when it is done for food. I struggle with recycling and using too much electricity and water. I used to call myself a republican, but now I am an independent because of environmental issues.

Let’s face it, I’m pretty much an oxymoron.

How many of you are in the same boat as me?

And how many of you are trying to do better?

Start today.

Earth Day 2012

Make a pledge to do something to help this Earth we live on.

Drive less.

Unplug things that aren’t in use.

Recycle more.

Turn off the water while you are brushing your teeth.

Switch out your light bulbs.

Plant a tree or two or three.

Upcycle things that you were going to throw away.

Join your local freecycle or ReUseIt group. (Those are groups where you give things away instead of throwing them away.)

Support groups who are fighting to conserve animals. (My favorites are IS Foundation and Sea Shephard. (As controversial as Sea Shepherd is, they get it done when local and international law enforcement are not forcing countries to follow the laws.)

The list goes on and on. Pick something simple to start with. Help raise awareness. You don’t have to go out and be someone who eschews modern living to save the world. If we all made small changes it would have a big impact.

Tell me what your plans are for today and don’t forget to get in on Built Of Barnwood’s Earth Day Promotion. A good portion of the proceeds are going to the IS Foundation.

Have a happy Earth Day and be kind to her every day.

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Recent Manicures

Posted by Heather Manning On April - 21 - 2012

I did my nails last night and to me they look like bowling shoes. If I was Paris Hilton and wore pink sparkly bowling shoes.

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