Welcome to Not Everyone's Mama!

I am a tattoo loving pierced up Christian soccer mom to 4 living a crazy life I love. I am Not Everyones Mama.

Archive for November, 2010

Blog Name Change

Posted by Heather Manning On November - 30 - 2010

Get ready to point your browsers to a new domain.Ā  My domain is nowĀ http://noteveryonesmama.com.Ā  You will also be able to still get here via http://digiscrapping.net/blog.Ā  I’ll post a link at the top of this post for a couple of weeks so that people know to change it from http://the247mom.com.Ā  That domain will be going up for auction.

I received an email last night from a site that has a similar name to mine, who admittedly had their name first, but the names were not identical in any way shape or form, telling me that there was some confusion over the name – even though I’ve had that domain for a year.

To clear up any confusion – I did not pick that domain name to deceive people into thinking I was them or a part of their organization, I didn’t even realize they were an organization until last night when I was looking them up.Ā  I knew after the fact (of purchasing my domain) that we had similar names, but that was that.

I came up with the name The 24/7 Mom because I am a SAHM to 4 kids.Ā  Hence, being a 24/7 mom.Ā  I’m never off duty.Ā  Ever.Ā  I thought it was cute and described me perfectly.

I was going to keep it. In my mind, the names weren’t identical.Ā  I had no mal-intentions when I renamed my blog and I was certainly not guilty of what I guess some people were accusing me of. I thought of my other domain – http://digiscrapping.net.Ā  It’s been around for what 3 years now?Ā  How many digiscrapping sites have opened up since then with the name digiscrapping in it?Ā  Did I go after them telling them that people were thinking that they were deceiving others into thinking they were me?Ā  No, it’s a popular industry, there are going to be similar names out there.Ā  Just as there are going to be similar names to mom blogs. But then I figured, why deal with it?Ā  It’s simple enough to change it.Ā  I’m not an organization, I wasn’t even a competing website, I’m just a mom blogging about her day to day life.Ā  No business cards to change, etc.

So, there you have it, I am now Not Everyone’s Mama.Ā  It came as I was talking to my sister in law about what I could change it to.Ā  I’m a tattoo’d pierced up soccer mom who seems to be constantly saying, ā€œI don’t really care, I’m not their mamaā€.Ā  I’m not a ā€œproperā€ mom, I don’t sweat the small stuff, I don’t measure the hours my kids watch TV, I don’t count their calories, I don’t care if they get dirty, they’re kids, they wash (as do their clothes) – they don’t melt.Ā  I choose my battles and decide what is important to fight over.Ā  I try to remember I made it through childhood without my mom hovering over me taking all of the experts’ advice.

I may yell, I may have moments when I just cover my ears to tune out the arguing, I am totally not perfect, but I love them so much and I would protect them to the death.

I’m Not Everyone’s Mama……now.

ETA – I think I have everything changed over. Theme, button, feedburner, email siggy – it’s all fixed to reflect the new name.

Amplify

Popularity: 3% [?]

Read these too:

  • No Related Posts

It’s Snowing

Posted by Heather Manning On November - 30 - 2010

See

November-51

It’s more like the sky is spitting a tad bit of the fluffy stuff out, but I think it’s snow.  I see it.  It’s so light I couldn’t get a picture of it.  None the less, it excited my kids this morning.  They are hoping it will pile up and they will get a snow day tomorrow.  If it keeps up at this pace, that might happen in July.

I’m not ready for snow yet.  I still have my flip flops out….and on my feet.  I was slightly cold putting gas in my car this morning.  I’m not known for intelligence when it comes to footwear unless there is actual snow on the ground.  Then I get out my boots. 

I remember one time after I had Alyce, she was probably 3 months old or something.  I went up to the gas station while everyone else was asleep.  It was negative something out.  What did I have on my feet?  Crocks.  Yes, I had crocks on. 

Have I mentioned my directional dyslexia?  I’m sure I have.  I left the gas station and felt like something was wrong with my van (at the time), so I took a side street.  My tire blew.  Here I was on a side street, Pato was sleeping, he wouldn’t wake up to my calling him.  I had no choice but to walk.  And get lost.  On the side streets.  He finally got up for work and noticed that I was missing.  He called me and asked where I was and I was crying.  My feet were so cold.  I couldn’t find my way back to my car.  I couldn’t figure out what streets would take me home.  I was a mess.  I didn’t know where I was.

He put Alyce in her carrier and left Jordan with Katiana since I had her car seat in my car.  He came and found me, only about a block and a half from home, but I’d wandered for about 30 minutes. 

When I got home, I sat under a blanket and just shivered.  I couldn’t get warm for a couple of hours.  I’m lucky I didn’t get frostbite on my feet.  They were nice and purple.  I ran them under warm water trying to warm them up.  That was horrible.

And what did I wear out this morning to take the kids to school?  Flip flops.

Yep, never learn my lesson.

Have a great day!

Amplify

Popularity: 2% [?]

Read these too:

And Now The Madness Begins

Posted by Heather Manning On November - 29 - 2010

For some.  Thanksgiving is over.  We’re thankful, it’s all good.  Then Black Friday hit and insanity took over normal minded people in the name of a sale.

Myself included.  I hadn’t gotten around to posting about what Black Friday was like for me because I have just been too wiped to post much of anything that required a lot of thought.

Well, today, I feel like myself again. 1 week and 1 day after getting the bladder/kidney infection, my temperature has been restored to normal and I am not falling over with dizziness and so tired I can’t think.  I’m good.

Black Friday I wasn’t.

We did Thanksgiving at my brother’s.  Then my sister in law and I were going to hit Toys R Us.  I wasn’t up to standing in line for hours so Pato and I didn’t go until midnight.  It was still madness.  Why would I expect anything less?  I got 3/4 of the things that were on my list and then we waited in line.  And waited.  And waited.  And waited.  For over an hour.  Now I realize that’s standard for Black Friday but when you are feeling like I was that day, it was pure torture.

We finally got through the line.  I collapsed into the car and said, jeeves, take me home.  I can’t do it anymore.  Ok, first I collapsed in my car and then checked my phone to see what time Kmart was opening because Wal-Mart and Target didn’t open for a couple of hours.  I noticed that Kmart was having their Black Friday sale online too and then I said, jeeves take me home.  I can’t do it anymore.

We came home and I hopped online.  Kmart didn’t have any of the things on my list.  Target had quite a few of them on sale already as did Wal-Mart.  Put in my orders.  Cried a little over the other lost sale items.  And went to bed.

I figure, they will have other sales and I can get the rest of it over the next few weekends.

I’ve never not stayed out and shopped until 8 or so Friday morning.

It didn’t feel right.

What do you do when you’re feeling like warmed over death?

Shop online.

On the plus side, Pato got me my birthday present while I was shopping online.  No, don’t wish me a happy birthday yet.  It’s not until Dec 15 and you don’t really have to wish me one then.  Birthdays depress me.  This one more so.  I’m going to be 36.  That means I’m over the hump and on my way out of the thirties. Again, what do you do?

You have your husband buy you a pretty red camera.  I have a Nikon Coolpix 8700.  It’s kind of in between a DSLR and a P&S.  More settings than a P&S.

41KB5BX2PKL

That’s my camera now.  It’s awesome, I love it.  You should see the new version of this one though.  I kind of drool over it.

I saw this one was on sale for $79.99 (normally $139.99) and Pato said to get it.  And it’s for your birthday, eh.  Nope, my husband isn’t Canadian, Mexicans do it too. :)

NikonCoolPix

Now, while I LOVE my old camera, it’s not convenient for just slipping in your purse and going.  It’s bigger.  This one is good for slipping in my purse and it’s got more stuff.

Vibration Reduction Technology, Motion Detection, Self Timer, Electronic Image Stabilization, Blink Detection, Face Detection Technology, D-Lighting, Auto Scene Selector, Anti-Glare Coating, Brightness Adjustment, Graphical User Interface, Color TFT LCD Screen, Easy-to-Read Menu System

Plus 12 megapixels, where as mine is 8 now.

I’m all about the vibration reduction technology.  Here’s hoping I’m happy with the pictures.  I don’t think anything will truly make me happy outside of a DSLR, but we take we what can get without selling our first or fourth born and we are happy about it. :)

I’m just sad it hasn’t shipped yet.  The other items in the order have shipped already, why not my camera?

Saturday I finished up shopping for Alyce’s birthday.  I had to switch some things around because things I had planned on getting her for her birthday ended up being ordered instead of bought at the store.  She’s getting the things that I bought her on Black Friday for Christmas for her birthday and the things I bought on Saturday.  Her birthday is Thursday.  She’ll be 4.  Can you believe that?  I started this blog when I was pregnant with her.

That’s a long time to be blogging with how blogs come and go (including ones I have started :) – )

I’m not looking forward to the rest of my Christmas shopping. The reason I do it all on Black Friday usually is that I want it done in one fell swoop.  I HATE fighting the crowds at Christmas time.  It stresses me out.  Maybe this year with my Citalopram I won’t feel like having a panic attack when standing in a crowd of people all fighting for the last…..whatever is on my list that I haven’t gotten yet.

And if anyone knows anyone who is selling an iPod Touch for around $100, let me know.  That’s the big thing on Jordan’s list this year.  I am trying to keep my spending range between $150/175 this year on each kid.  Buying it new is out of that range and I cannot afford to spend $300 on each kid right now.  I’ve been known to do that in the past and all it’s left me with is a bunch of broken toys and kids with ā€œwhat else did you get meā€ attitudes.  Cutting that one out this year.  We’ve been cruising Craig’s List, but it seems as soon as one is listed, it’s bought.

Have a great night and good luck with the holiday gift giving madness on your end!

Amplify

Popularity: 2% [?]

Read these too:

Thanksgiving Pics

Posted by Heather Manning On November - 27 - 2010

Finally sat down and edited my Thanksgiving pictures.Ā  Yippie!Ā  I only took a few because I wasn’t feeling hot.Ā  And I didn’t think about taking pictures of the food until…….after we’d eaten.Ā  I’m swift I tell you.

November-40

White chocolate covered pretzels Taylor and Shelley made.Ā  Pretty aren’t they?Ā  They tasted even better!

November-41

Leftover rolls

November-49

Fruit Salad Pato made.Ā  We make this (I mean we as in my family, but the last few years it’s been Pato) every year for every holiday that I can remember.Ā  It’s a huge family favorite and we make tons so there are leftovers for everyone.

Manning Family Fruit Salad -

5-6 bananas (sliced)

5-6 red delicious apples, cored and chopped up into about 1 inch size pieces

3/4 bag of seedless red grapes – halved or quartered

2 large cans of pineapple chunks – juice removed

3 cans of mandarin oranges – juice removed

(We do the oranges and pineapple as soon as we are done chopping bananas and apples so they don’t turn brown)

bag of small marshmallows

2 large containers of (fat-free for us) Cool Whip

Walnuts if you like – I don’t, so no one gets them when we make fruit salad :)

Mix it all together

That recipe makes a HUGE container of it, enough for my family of 19 to all have some and then leftovers for each family.Ā  We just polished off the rest of ours today.Ā  So good! It’s easy, I just hate chopping.Ā  It takes me a couple of hours to make it.Ā  It takes Pato 30 minutes, hence him making it the last few years.

I’ve been tickled pink because I’m down 20 lbs right now, my pants are all falling off of me, after eating all that food though, I probably need to invest in some fast weight loss pills. :) Ā Not really, I’m doing ok on my own, but I won’t say I haven’t gained a few back after Thanksgiving.

November-42

My brother Josh and Cambria

November-43

Nano with a mouthful

November-44

Carter, Mikayla, (my) Alyce, Jadah, Sydney, and (my) Katiana

November-45

Tay – isn’t she growing up to be just gorgeous?

November-46

I thought I was being sneaky taking a picture from afar.Ā  I guess I wasn’t.

November-47

Even farther back – Justin catches me every.single.time.

November-48

My daddy

That’s all the ones that came out good.Ā  Hope you had a wonderful Thanksgiving/weekend!

Have a wonderful night!

Amplify

Popularity: 2% [?]

Read these too:

NKOTBSB

Posted by Heather Manning On November - 26 - 2010

I’m probably the last person to blog about this, but I don’t care.  I was passed out in bed with a fever of 104 when it was on TV. Yes, my friends.  I am a horrible NKOTB fan.  I could not rouse myself from a bladder/kidney infection coma to watch the AMA’s.  I was 14 when NKOTB was starting to big, and probably late teens – early 20’s when BSB was huge.  Joey and Nick were my guys.  To see them both singing together, kind of made my heart flutter a tad.  And yes…in answer to your question…. you are sexual.  fanning oneself Joey’s still got my heart though.

The rest of the guys looked great, a little, as Randy Jackson puts it, pitchy at times, but me thinks it might be nerves.  Howie seemed spot on..every note.  And of course, Joey was perfection. 

I’m a teenager again, what can I say?

Have a great night!  I’ll get some Thanksgiving pics up tomorrow.  I’ve been just laying around today, still recouping.  Fever is low grade now thank goodness.

Amplify

Popularity: 3% [?]

Read these too:

Happy Thanksgiving!

Posted by Heather Manning On November - 25 - 2010

I’m late in posting this (I’m still wiped out, exhausted now from doing stuff all day), but to all of my American friends celebrating Thanksgiving today, Happy Thanksgiving!

To all of my readers, American or outside of the USA – I’m so thankful for all of you!Ā  Thank you!

Now, I never ever post pictures that I think are absolutely horrible of myself, but in this case, I’ll make an exception because I feel human, yes, good no.Ā  You can read what I’m recovering from here, if you haven’t.

This picture though, it has to be shared.Ā  It’s probably the first picture of just my brothers, my sister, and myself since we were like 10 or so. Seriously, it’s been that long.

November-38

I’m the one who doesn’t look related to other 3, breaking all fashion rules for the sake of comfort because I don’t feel good.Ā  You know, big huge bulky sweater over a big huge feltish-skirt. Plus, I could probably use something from www.treatmentacne.net. Ā There’s something about being sick that makes my face all blotchy and break out like. :(

3 people snuck off with the good genes in our family and I was left with the fat genes.Ā  :)

So, from us Manning kids (and my whole family, happy Thanksgiving!

Amplify

Popularity: 2% [?]

Read these too:

Finally – A Christmas Card – DONE!

Posted by Heather Manning On November - 24 - 2010

Christmas2010-sm

It looks a tad awkward at the bottom because that is where our last name goes.  You thought Manning was my last name….it’s my maiden name.  :)   I know, you all knew that.

Credits – Christmas is all around – Malina
I’m Worn Out Photo Edges – Heather Manning (http://digiscrapping.net)
Font – DJB BREWHAUS SPECIAL & DJB Elegant – Darcy Baldwin

Uploading to http://purpletrail.com right now.  Interested to see how their printed cards turn out.  I hope it’s as good as Hy-Vee and better than Wal-Mart, which always comes out darker than it looks on my screen.

Have a great day!

Amplify

Popularity: 5% [?]

Read these too:

Just Made My First Cup Of Coffee

Posted by Heather Manning On November - 24 - 2010

in days.  And it isn’t smelling too good.  I’m hoping I can keep it down. 

It’s been Hell.

I’ve been suspicious of a UTI for a few days prior to Sunday, but seeing as I don’t take myself to the dr until it’s way too late usually (that link is to my first kidney infection ever), I thought I’d continue the pattern.  I self-treated with lots of cranberry juice, water, and ate cranberry sauce by the can until I thought I would puke.

I thought it was getting better.

Nope, it was just moving into another area.

Saturday I was fine.  Pato and I even went out and had a couple of drinks together, without kids, for the first time in 6 years.  We had so much fun.

Sunday, I was puking.  I didn’t understand it because I had 1 beer and 2 bacardi/diets with more diet than bacardi. It wasn’t like I drank a huge amount.  I just felt miserable.

Sunday night, my fever was raging.  I can’t find my flippin’ thermometer – looking accusingly at my kids – but I remember my last kidney infection, I would say I was close to 104 at least.  I was determined to hold out until the morning to go to my doctor, not the ER.

I barely made it through the night.  Pato kept getting up to get my ibuprofen and Tylenol and refill my water. I’d be shaking so hard from being cold that my teeth would chatter together and the bed was shaking with me.

Monday morning, Pato got Katiana up and took her to school.  Then he came back and got Jordan, Nano, Alyce, and I.  We all went to the Dr.  (Alyce and Pato were the only ones who didn’t need seen.)  I ended up having a massive bladder/kidney infection.  So much so that my Dr said, I’m going to give you a shot of the good stuff, then I want you to start the oral right when you get them.  You know you’re miserable when you say, I love you, to your dr because he said that he was going to give you a shot.  I have not gotten a shot for anything in years, even when my ear drum ruptured from being so infected, just oral antibiotics. 

Got that shut in my toosh and was incredibly grateful, thinking I’d wake up Tuesday feeling wonderful.

Au contraire, mon frĆØre.

I’ll get to that in a moment.

Jordan, still hasn’t been feeling good, even after I took him to the ER almost 2 weeks ago and they told me, just a virus…ya di da di da (you know the drill).  Well, Jordan has bronchitis.  Prednisone and antibiotics for him.

Christiano has had a nasty nose and cough for a few days and I watched him, just like my doctor always tells me to.  I decided that he was going to get seen also.

Ear infection and he’s starting to develop what Jordan has.  Antibiotics for him.

Let me tell you, the trip to the pharmacy was fun, just because Jordan’s last name is different (he has his dad’s), my insurance card still has his last name also because I haven’t changed my social security card to Pato’s last name.  I tried, but I have to send a copy of my divorce papers because I forgot to change it after we were divorced.  Need to do that.) Christiano has my legal last name (Pato’s last name). But, it was rather confusing to the pharmacist, and she could not spell either last name to save her life.  Neither are difficult.  You just have to listen to what I am saying.  They sound the way they are spelled.  Pay attention to the class please. So not in the mood to stand at the pharmacy in line at that point.  My fever was going back up.

Took our medicine that day, both doses for all of us.

My mom came over that evening to help me with the kids.  I swear my temp hit 105 at once point.  I was shaking so bad.  I could hardly walk.  My mom told me to get in the shower with tepid water. I said, but it’s coooooold.  She said, do you want brain damage?  I already was having problems with my joints feeling like they were swelling.  My chiropractor and Dr told me before with my other kidney infection that that’s a sign of one of your –crud, I can’t remember, one of your glands not working right, adrenal I think.  It can happen with a high fever they both said. I figured I should listen to mom and hop in the shower before I had brain damage from an uncontrollable fever.  My fever went down enough from that to give me relief until the ibuprofen kicked in again.  I was able to lean on the couch (you know, half laying down, half leaning) from the time my mom left until Pato was able to get off 2 hours later.

Tuesday night was just like Monday night.  Horrible.

I woke up Tuesday thinking I was better, just really weak.  Yippie for the shot of the strong stuff.  I laid down with the kids at noon, not taking another dose of ibuprofen.  Got up at 3 feeling miserable all over again.  The ibuprofen/Tylenol was just doing a good job of keeping the fever down.  When I didn’t take it, it shot back up.  Back to laying in bed with covers on my shivering shivering, moaning because my skin hurt, my joints hurt, it all just sucked.

Eventually, the medicine kicked in again.  I came out here and sat with the kids who did not want to go to bed (no school today on Wednesday) until Pato got home.  I was not strong enough to make any of them do anything.  (Not physically, mentally.  I was completely empty.  Still am.)

Pato came home, I took 2 more ibuprofen and went to bed.

Slept ALL night.  Did not get up once shivering.  Friggin’ awesome!

I was scared to get out of bed this morning.  I was worried as soon as I got up that I’d fall over and the fever would come back.  I got up and stayed standing, wobbly mind you, but I was standing.  Came in the kitchen, fed Junie, made coffee, took my antibiotic, and 2 ibuprofen just in case, because I’m scared that fever will come back. 

Took Junie outside to go.

Came back in, and felt strong enough to sit here and blog a little.  Sitting isn’t so bad.  I have no strength at all. Standing is hard.  Standing for more then a few minutes is impossible.  But, I think I’m on the mend.  I’m not sure if I’m going to be up for Black Friday shopping, which would not hurt Pato’s feelings in the least bit, but I really want to go. It’s when I get Alyce’s birthday presents.  Do you know she is going to be 4 on Dec. 2?  I can’t believe it.

Both of the boys were still the same last night when they went to bed.  I’m hoping after 2 days of medicine, they’ll wake up this morning feeling a bit better also.

I have to say, and I’ll post this on Junie’s Blog next, but she would not leave my side this whole time.  Period.  Someone would have to pick her up and take her outside to the bathroom so she would go.  I would have to come into the kitchen and sit in a chair by her food dish, leaning my head against the file cabinet so she would eat and drink.  It’s like she sensed something was wrong with me and wanted to be there for me.  Literally, glued to my side.  I adore that little dog.

Oh, and yesterday, when I was laying in bed shivering, Alyce came in, rubbed my head and said, ā€œMom, do you need some more ā€˜canbrerry’ juice?ā€

Yes baby, I would love some.

She went and got me the last of it.

Then she came in with 2 socks.  ā€œHere mommy, here’s more socks.  And they are long and matching.ā€

Is she not a doll baby?

You have a wonderful day!

Amplify

Popularity: 2% [?]

Read these too:




Shop Amazon - Valentine's Day Top Gift Ideas

Heather's books

Where the Sidewalk Ends
Animal Farm
Lord of the Flies
Little Women
Memoirs of a Geisha
The Joy Luck Club
The Da Vinci Code
The Kite Runner
A Time to Kill
The Silence of the Lambs
Odd Thomas
Harry Potter and the Sorcerer's Stone
Twilight
The Devil Wears Prada
Confessions of a Shopaholic
Dead to the World
Dead as a Doornail
From Dead to Worse
Dead and Gone
Dead in the Family


Heather's favorite books Ā»
}