My family has been asking me to take down my blog posts since yesterday. I stood on the principle that I wasn’t slamming on anyone for breaking up, I didn’t go into detail about any of that. I was discussing the fact that this affected me in a way that made me uncomfortable. I was upset because this is my blog, my journal, my diary and I shouldn’t have to censor my thoughts because what I had to say upset someone, when I felt they were wrong from the beginning.
Yesterday, I was hurt more than you can know to find out that this involved people that I never thought would intentionally do things to hurt me. That made me hold my ground more with removing any of my posts. Even my mom, my voice of sanity, couldn’t convince me to do it.
However, today I was driving home after taking Pato to work (flat tire), and on my iPod this song came on –
It was on one of my favorite songs growing up and I hadn’t heard it in a long time.
I felt this nudge at my heart. It said that I wasn’t being very nice. It said holding on to something that hurt other people that I love just to stand on a principle, that wasn’t right. That this is not who I am. That those who know me, those who care about me, they know where I was coming from, they understand why everything bothered me, and they are who matter.
So, that being said, I will delete the text in the other posts and link them to this post as an explanation. I am done with it on my blog and everything else will be handled through the proper channels.
Thank you to everyone who supported me through this. I had so many comments, emails, facebook posts giving me advice and support and I want to let you know that I really appreciate it.
Now I’ll get my regular blog post done. I just wanted to get this done.
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You are so awesome of a daughter and God is good, isn’t he? Mom
Thanks mom. Yeah, but he has a way of telling me more often what I’m doing wrong than right. That should tell me something in and of itself shouldn’t it?
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Heather, — I would support you with either choice — to let it stay or to remove the posts, but I think that this has made you feel like the stronger person and that is a good thing, to be above what the other person may be doing and only choose to discuss it with the directly involved parties. Hope this all clears up soon for everyone because the is not deserved by you or your brother.
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