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Happy Halloween!

Posted by Heather Manning On October - 31 - 2010

From us to you!  We went trick or treating last night, so I’ve got some pics of the kids to wish you a fun day with!

October-26

Take 1

October-27

Take 2

October-28

Take 3

October-29

Take 4

October-30

Take 5 – almost there – come on Nano, we need a smile as bright as your pink bucket you stole from your sister.

October-31

With mom in the shot we got close enough. :)

Happy Halloween from us to you!

Have a wonderful day!

(I’ll hopefully have more pictures tomorrow to share when I get my SIL’s.)

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Just Like The Kids

Posted by Heather Manning On October - 30 - 2010

She has turned into a mama’s dog.  Well, except for Christiano, who since I quit nursing prefers daddy to do everything, even get him out of his car seat.  I’m not joking.  He will cross his arms over his chest with this obstinate look on his face – a la Alyce – and say, UH UH – daddy.

Oh give me a break.  Who walked through the Valley of the Shadow of Death to bring you into this world?  It certainly wasn’t your daddy sitting on the hospital couch playing his PSP.  I might give grandma credit, but not daddy.  Daddy’s good at holding hands at the end and cutting the cord.  :)

Anyways, back to the dog.  Junie has decided that I’m her favorite person in the world at our house – or I’m the one who makes her feel most secure during this transition to being a member of our family.

Silly little thing is under me every step of the way.  I get up from my computer to go get something out of the kitchen?  She’s little velcro dog.  I go to the bathroom, she’s along for the party (what’s one more?  The kids all have to follow me to the bathroom).  I step outside for a moment?  She let’s out this pitiful little whine and turns those big little eyes on to Katiana, who promptly gets her leash, brings her to me and says, mooooom.  She wants you.  She was crying. 

Awwww.

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There she is, her favorite place to sleep – my lap. :)   You can see her new collar that got her yesterday.  Ebay people.  It was cheap too.  $8.  This is the one I got.  You can see seller’s other items from there.  I  might have missed it in the description, but I didn’t know I would have to put it together.  It came with the collar and the letters.  I needed to take a screwdriver, unscrew the screws, slide the letters on, and screw it back together. I stretched some cotton over the screws.  They are flat, no ridges, but I was still worried about if they would bother her or not.  She just doesn’t like a collar period.  She tries to get this one off, she tried to get the purple one off.  Sorry chica, you have to wear your rabies tag at the apartments.

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Can you not see the love?  Katiana adores her.  All the kids do.  Nano runs around the house either yelling doggy!  doggy!  The doggy is safely under my desk or on my lap, but he’s just all excited. 

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The back of her little dress she wore yesterday to keep warm.  Don’t laugh, she gets cold easily.  She seems to like it outside, she runs around, tail wagging, or her tail might be wagging because she is trembling so hard from being cold.  Even with a sweater AND a coat on.  Silly little thing.

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waaaaaaaahhhhhh- at least that’s what I think she’s thinking – it was slightly windy yesterday, but a dog has to do what a dog has to do.

I know, I know, lots of dog posts lately, but I can’t help myself.  She’s such a little angel.  Not one accident in the house.  Woot woot!

I am worried about her eating. I bought Iams in the beginning, but she didn’t seem to like that.  So, I bought her the brand that she had been eating with Amanda.  It’s the Blue Buffalo dry adult food, the small bites.  I haven’t caught her eating out of her bowl much, but that could be because Alyce follows her around with handfuls of dry dog food feeding her.  Or, it could be because what Christiano drops on the floor is SO much more interesting than what she gets in her bowl. 

I had a neighbor growing up who had a 35 lb miniature pincher named Midget.  Shortest dog, seriously, but the chubbiest dog you would ever see.  He ate TONS of table scraps.  I don’t want Junie Bee to get that way or have health problems because she’s eating Christiano’s leftovers.  If that’s what you want to call them.  I try to catch what he throws over the edge before she gets to them, but I don’t always win. :)

We are working on walking on a leash right now.  She really doesn’t see the need for a leash, and honestly with velcro doggie, I’m not too worried about her escaping, I’m more worried about her peeing on my slipper.  :)   But, she has to be on a leash or in my arms when on the apartment grounds and it’s hard to go pee when she’s in my arms I’m sure.  When she’s on the leash, she runs around me in circles.  I’m telling you, I get dizzy after walking around in circles so we don’t get tangled up in the leash together. 

The other thing we are working on is down.  Now, having a 6 lb dog jump on your or I is nothing, but having a 6 lb dog jump up on Christiano breaks him down into tears.  It’s really quite funny.  Not nice, I know.  But, he likes to watch Junie from afar or come up to me and ask me to help him pet her.  Hand, hand mama.  So cute!

We should probably work on sit too.  And the go pee command so that the poor thing isn’t freezing out in the snow when she is doing her business in December.

We’ll get there.  Eventually, seeing as I know nothing about dog training.  Google is becoming my best friend.

I’m completely smitten with her little face.

Her and Nano have to take turns sitting on my lap.  If I’m holding Junie, Nano comes up and taps my lap and says me.  If I’m holding Nano, Junie comes up and puts her paws up on my legs to get up too.  I’ve got 2 babies.

Have a wonderful day!

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Someone Came Early

Posted by Heather Manning On October - 29 - 2010

Though, the secret was out early on my mom’s blog because she blogged last night.  :)

I asked Junie’s foster mom how far away she was from Pato’s work.  If she was close, I would love to drive up and meet her and Junie. 

She decided to meet us at Pato’s work with her.

While I was gushing over little Junie, she said, you can take her home with you today if you want.

If I want?  Yes I want!  Of course I want!

We brought her home and she has been the sweetest little angel you will ever meet.

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That’s when she went to bed last night in her build a bear bed.  So stinking sweet!

She did get up last night when she heard Jordan and Pato coming toward the door.  She even let out a little growl.  Me thinks she thinks she’s a guard dog.  6 lbs of a guard dog.  When they came in and I was fine with them, she was fine with them, hanging out with Jordan, letting him take her out to potty.

This morning, I couldn’t get her to slow down enough for a picture.  I’ve got a couple of her bouncing around.

October-23

Hanging out with Katiana.

October-24

After I took her sweater off because the attached scarf was driving her crazy.

October-25

Breakfast!  You can tell she’s a Chinese Crested in this picture.  Yes, she’s using high school musical bowls.  I hadn’t gotten her dishes yet because I wasn’t expecting her until Sunday.  Improvising people, improvising.

I have never met a dog that is so sweet and so trusting right off the bat and I think that says so much about her foster mommy, Amanda.

She taught her that it was ok to love and trust, that all people weren’t going to hurt her.

Amanda, I think you are one of the most wonderful people in the world!  (Besides the fact that she could be my taller with a much better figure twin – love of dogs, nose rings, and Twilight?  I <3 her!)

I have to take this moment to talk about puppy mills and backyard breeders.  Not reputable breeders who love and care for their animals, backyard breeders who are just in it for the money and who don’t give 2 cents about their animals.  It happens with all animals. 

Woodstock (my lovebird) came from a parrot rescue, thank God he was never used as a breeder bird and he wasn’t really abused at all, just not wanted.

Junie Bee.  This poor dog has been through so much in her short 3 years.  Amanda told me that the vet, after spaying her, said that her uterus was all stretched out and saggy, like an old balloon that has been blown up and had the air released out of one too many times.

He said her nails are the way they are from standing in her own urine and feces in a cage all the time.

And her jaw was broke when she was a puppy.  And never fixed.  It doesn’t quite line up just right.

It makes me so angry that someone would treat this little 6 lb bundle of love like that.  It makes me angry that there are so many more dogs out there in this situation.  I am so thankful to Amanda for getting her out of the situation she was in. 

We just have to make a difference for one dog at a time.  Educate people on where (most of) their pet store puppies come from.  What these poor dogs go through.  Educate them about the fact that these mills and BYB’s don’t worry about breeding out genetic problems in the breed.  They actually increase the genetic problems in the breeds.

Know that most reputable breeders have a waiting list for their pups.  They aren’t on Craig’s List selling litter after litter (which is against Craig’s List’s rules by the way.  Craig’s List is a NO SELL site.  You can rehome your animal on there, but not sell litter after litter of puppies.  You can charge a small rehome fee that consists of RECENT vet expenses to get the dog ready to rehome – you can’t charge $400 and say, hey!  that’s a good deal for this dog!  They sell for $600.  I’m not a huge flagger on Craig’s List, but if you wonder why you get flagged, that’s most likely the reason.)

Look to rescues and shelters.  Do you know how excited I was to find a dog that was almost completely house trained?  I did not want to try to potty train a dog, I’ve done it before, I’m not good at it.  :)   Junie hasn’t had an accident yet.  She’s gone outside every time.  Do you know how awesome that is considering the fact that she spent most of her life in a cage peeing and pooping where she was?

I am so in love with this little one.

Amanda, thank you so much for what you did for her.  You made a huge difference in this little dog’s life.  She has spent her morning hanging out with the girls, or letting me know that she wants up on my lap – then sleeping there.  She has all of our hearts.  Even my husband’s.

Tell your husband that I think she is absolutely beautiful and she has a forever home with us.  She never will have to go through that stuff again!

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What Do You Use Vaseline For

Posted by Heather Manning On October - 29 - 2010

Vaseline has been a staple in my house for years.  I’ve used it my whole life.  We always have a huge tub of it in the cupboard.

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What do I use Vaseline for:

  • My feet – I slather it on and put socks over it to soften my calluses.  It feels so much better and my feet don’t catch on my socks.
  • My lips – I use Vaseline a lot during cold weather for chapped lips.
  • Baby’s toosh – I use it for diaper changes to protect him and create a barrier between wet and his toosh.
  • Cuticles – it helps, I promise!
  • Elbows – It helps with dry elbows.  Mine have looked so much better since I started putting Vaseline on them every day.
  • Car Batteries – Yes, I’ve heard this works.  It prevents corrosion on your battery posts
  • Gum in Hair – I’ve actually done this when I was out of peanut butter.  It works just as well.
  • Rings – If your ring is stuck, smear a little Vaseline on your finger and it slides right off.
  • Stuck bolts – I’ve seen Pato do this.  A bolt was stuck and he grabbed the Vaseline and smeared it on.  He got it off with much less effort.
  • Dying Your Hair – smear Vaseline around your hair line to avoid staining your face with hair dye.
  • Wind – put a light layer of Vaseline on your face to prevent chapped cheeks.
  • Leather – I have heard that it softens leather:  shoes, baseball gloves, etc.
  • Scratches – rub a little on a minor scratch on your wood furniture and let it sit for awhile.  It works.

I got a little carried away with my list, it was supposed to be 10.  :)   I could keep going.  There are so many things that you can use Vaseline for. 

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Well Something Went Wrong

Posted by Heather Manning On October - 28 - 2010

I posted yesterday about how wonderful I have been feeling on my new medicine.  After I posted that, things went downhill yesterday.  I took my first full dose.  I have been taking 1/2 of a tablet up until this point.  I had a nasty reaction to a full tablet.

It wasn’t my attitude.

It was physical.  And it was scary.  My heart was racing, at one point it was up to 125 bpm.  I remember when I was pregnant with Katiana, I had to be hooked up to a heart monitor all the time and my heart rate was just at 100-110 bpm at that point.  When my heart would start racing, I would push a button.  It would record my heart beat.  When it was over, I would send it over the phone to the doctor’s office so they could monitor it.

On top of my heart rate, my chest felt like it does when I start having an asthma attack.  If you don’t have asthma, for me, my chest starts getting really tight.  Then my throat feels like it’s closing.  If I don’t get my inhaler, it progresses to gasping for air, you just can’t pull enough air into your lungs.  I imagine it kind of feels like drowning without the water.  There have been a few instances where even my inhaler hasn’t cut it and I’ve ended up in the hospital getting oxygen and on steroids for a week.  Yesterday, it was just my chest tightening, it didn’t progress to my throat feeling like it was closing up, but I had this panicky feeling.  I cried for a bit before I got myself under control.

Then there was the nausea.  I felt like I was going to get sick all day. 

Along with that, I was having hot flashes so bad, my hair would be soaked at the end of one.

I just felt gross.

I spent all day, until Pato left for work, in bed.

The rest of the night I spent either laying down or on the couch.  We ordered pizza last night.

I called my doctor in the afternoon, and she wasn’t in.  So, I left a message for my other doctor.  They called back and he told me to go back down to 1/2 of a tablet for awhile.  Then to check in with my other doctor to monitor it before we increased the dose again.

I don’t think I want to increase the dose again.  I’m good with 1/2 of a tablet.

I don’t like feeling like I did yesterday.  I would have involuntary twitches to accompany all the other symptoms.  In bed last night, I couldn’t stop moving my leg back and forth.

Let us not do that again.

This morning the nausea is gone, but my chest still feels tight.  I was expecting an asthma attack all day with how I felt, but it never progressed.  I didn’t want to take my inhaler at all.  That increases your heart rate too and I definitely didn’t need it to go any faster.

I took my 1/2 a tablet this morning and am crossing my fingers.  I’ll continue with that for awhile then check in with my doctor.

Wish me luck because it was working.  I want to keep that feeling of calm and not have the feeling of being completely stressed out, hopelessness, and depression any more.

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Getting Some Help Part II

Posted by Heather Manning On October - 27 - 2010

I thought I would update you on how I’m doing since I posted my Getting Some Help post about going to the doctor to get help with my worsening depression. 

If you remember, my doctor prescribed Citalopram 20, 1/2 tablet/tablet the first week, 1 tablet/day after that.  I’ve read that it takes 30 days for this to build up in your system and start working but I’ve noticed a HUGE difference already.  The last 2 days have been so much better for me.

Yesterday, a day that normally would have had me seething?  I felt like myself.  No stressed out tight feeling in my chest, no wanting to scream a the world, I wasn’t even angry in the tiniest bit.

I had asked Pato to take the letter from the doctor regarding a companion animal up to the office.  I should have specified.  My own fault. He complained that he didn’t have time to.  I didn’t understand because the office is right up the street.

30 minutes after he left I got a call from my doctor’s office.  Heather.  Your husband just dropped the letter off up here.  We’re not quite sure what to do with it.  Don’t you need it for you landlord?

Why yes, yes I do.

I wasn’t thrilled to have to go up to the doctor’s office, but I didn’t call him up all ticked off about it.  Just packed the kids up and off we went to retrieve it.  Then we stopped at the apartment office to drop it off and get new light bulbs for the bathroom.  I have 3 burnt out, they only had 2.  I need to take those 2 back up there to dispose of before Pato goes dropping 2 mercury containing CF bulbs in the trash. 

Then I ran up to Ankeny, not even stressing about directions. (If you know me, you know that going some place new is enough to give me HORRIBLE anxiety.  I am really bad with directions.).  I picked up the dog sweaters that someone on ReUseIt was giving us for Junie Bee and headed home.  The littlest ones and I laid down and took a nap.  Then Jordan and Kat got home.

It was another night of fighting and not listening and not cooperating and not wanting to get their chores done.

You know, a normal night for our family.

Normally this would have me on the verge of a stress attack.  I’d spend so much time on the porch breathing in and out, in and out.  I’d be fighting not to fly off the handle and yell at everyone.

Not last night though.  I was calm.  Jordan was whining, not wanting to do his chores.  But I don’t want to.  I didn’t ask you if you wanted to, I told you to do them.

I’m not doing them.

Yes you are and I would suggest you get started now or I’ll start taking things away.

He stomped off to the kitchen yelling about how unfair life is and how I’m just a horrible mother and ya di dah di dah.

I said, doesn’t it feel silly to be screaming at someone who isn’t yelling back?

He said, no.

Kat said, I like happy mommy better than mad mommy.

She’s noticing a difference.

Pato noticed a difference and commented on it the night before last.  He was late getting home because the restaurant closed late.  He came in spouting off his reasons, getting defensive, on the offensive from my yelling/angry/ticked off attack.  I just looked at him.

Aren’t you mad?

Nope.

Why?

I think the pills are working.

Esta bien.  (That’s good.)

I think I’m becoming much easier to live with.

My doctor was right.  The dose I am on just takes the edge off.  I still care about things.  Unlike when I was on prozac and I couldn’t care less about anything, much less caring whether I was alive or not.  I just don’t feel like I can’t handle it all any more.

So awesome.

Another bonus!  I haven’t been taking my diet pills because I’m not sure how they will interact with my medicine, but, I also haven’t been stressed out eating.  Between the weight I lost before and not reaching for food when I’m upset, I had to wear a belt the other day with pants that were so tight in the waist I couldn’t hardly breathe just a month and a half ago.

And I am totally stoked.  Junie Bee is getting spayed and her shots today.  If all goes well for her, she’ll be coming to live with us on Sunday.  I am so excited to have her with us!

So, things are going good.

I hope they continue!

Have a wonderful day!

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Be Smart About Your Health Benefits

Posted by Heather Manning On October - 26 - 2010

Understanding insurance benefits is not the easiest job in the world, out of pocket, in network, out of network, referrals, benefits, getting through all of it can be frustrating. 

Open enrollment is coming up for many insurance companies.  It’s usually between October and December, lasts for 30 days, and is the time that you will want to make changes to your policies, switch to other policies, etc.  Aetna has written an article to help you with that, but I’ll give you a few tips to get you started!

- Figure out what is important to you?  Lots of prescriptions?  Prescription copays can add up, look for one with the lowest amount that you have to pay.  Do you want to be able to see out of network doctors without a referral?  Think about dental and vision, 2 things that are very important to my family.  Jordan and I are both in glasses and seeing the dentist every 6 months for my kids is a priority I make time for.

- Make sure you can afford the premiums of the plan that you chose.  No one, possibly not even congress, knows what will happen with the new health reform laws.  Yes, everyone is supposed to be able to get coverage, plan ahead now though and make sure you can afford yours.

- Look ahead to what you may need.  Some policies may not cover yearly physicals, but that might be something that is important to you.  They also may not cover routine screening tests.  If you are genetically predisposed to a certain thing and you want to keep an eye on that, you may want to make sure that test is covered.

- A huge one to me is making sure my doctor is actually in the network.  I refuse to switch doctors after as many years as I have been going to him. At one job we had 2 different choices, he was in one network, not in the other.  I went with the one he was in.

- Compare the plans to see which one gives you the most bang for your buck.  You definitely want to get the most out of your money!  Will you get more from getting a bit more expensive plan because you go to the doctor a lot and pay out a lot in copays?  Or do you hardly ever go and it is better having a higher copay and a cheaper plan?  Plan for emergencies too though.  You never know when one might happen, though we hope it never does.

Good luck with all of that and I hope you find the perfect plan for you!

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You Might Be A Redneck If…

Posted by Heather Manning On October - 26 - 2010

I got this from my mama in my email today and I loved this forward!  Had to share!  Everyone loves a good redneck joke, and I’m probably borderline.  You know, being from Iowa probably qualifies me to be one.  Or, I might have to be from a bit further south.  Heck, if you know where the redneck line ends, go ahead and let me know.  :)

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We have enjoyed the redneck jokes for years. It’s time to
take a reflective look at the core beliefs of a culture that
values home, family, country and God. If I had to stand
before a dozen terrorists who threaten my life, I’d
choose a half dozen or so rednecks to back me up.
Tire irons, squirrel guns and grit — that’s what rednecks are
made of. I hope I am one of those. If you feel the
same, pass this on to your redneck friends.
Y’all know who ya are!

You might be a redneck if: It never occurred to you to
be offended by the phrase, ‘One nation, under God..’

You might be a redneck if: You’ve never protested about seeing
the 10 Commandments posted in public places.

You might be a redneck if: You still say ‘ Christmas’
instead of ‘Winter Festival.’

You might be a redneck if: You bow your head when
some one prays.

You might be a redneck if: You stand and place your
hand over your heart when they play the National Anthem.

You might be a redneck if: You treat our armed forces
veterans with great respect, and always have.

You might be a redneck if: You’ve never burned an
American flag, nor never intend to.

You might be a redneck if: You know what you believe
and you aren’t afraid to say so, no matter who is listening.

You might be a redneck if: You respect your elders and
raised your kids to do the same.

You might be a redneck if: You’d give your last dollar to
a friend.

If you got this email from me, it is because I believe that
you, like me, have just enough Red Neck in you to have the
same beliefs as those talked about in this email.
God Bless the USA!

____________________________________________________

I fall into all of those.  And I don’t mind if you call the time around Christmas – Winter Solstice, Hanukkah, Kwanza, or Ramadan.  Just don’t challenge my right to call it Christmas. :)

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