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Loving My Eye Make Up Today

Posted by Heather Manning On May - 2 - 2010

Not a review I got a free product to try Mr FCC man.  I just love how my make up came out today.  :)   Last time I posted a couple of eye shadow shots I had a few people email me asking me what I used.  So, thought I’d share this because I never ever thought I’d use this as eye shadow.

Here’s one shot –

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and the side angle came out a little more dramatic showing the colors –

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Want to know what I did?  I started out with Mary Kay’s Crystalline mineral eye shadow under the brow –

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Then I used bronzer for the other colors.  That’s what I was so tickled about.  My friend Kari, who I have been friends with for years, went back to Mary Kay and she sent me some samples to try of different things because I am addicted to new make up.  She sent me a few different bronzers to try.  The one I used for my eyes was Canyon Gold.

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I used the lighter color on the lid and the darker color in the crease.  I just dotted it right in the crease.  Didn’t use a lot.  I finally discovered blending brushes.  I’ve always used my fingers for blending, thinking why do I need an extra brush for it?  I just got ELF’s whole brush set and I LOVE their eye shadow blending brush.  Blended it all together, the line of the darker in my crease went mostly up, a tad down, and a little out.  Make sense?  I should you tube it.

Eye liner?  Just your average cover girl eye liner (Cover Girl Perfect Blend Eye Pencil in Black/Brown to be specific).  The one we’ve all been using since 8th grade.  I love the smudger on it.  I always break my smudge brushes, but have never broke this one off in all the years I’ve been buying them.  Lined upper and bottom because it’s what I do.  I feel naked without eye liner on.  Then I smudge the crud out of them.  I actually start out with a very thin but heavy line right above (on top)/below(on bottom) the lashes and then smudge smudge smudge.

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For fun, I added a little glitter, I just ordered ELF’s liquid eyeliner in copper.  To be honest, I ordered quite a few.  I go a tad crazy there when I shop for one thing.  Come on, everything is $1 almost AND I only shop with a coupon when I need something.

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Then to top it all off, I’m still using the L’Oreal Double Extend Lash Boosting System and the mascara that is in it.  I LOVE that mascara.  I’ve gone through a couple of tubes since I reviewed it.

That’s just one coat, and not a good one, I’m noticing.  Christiano was pulling on me as I was trying to finish my make up to go to my mom’s.  I wish the pictures were better because I really really really liked how that bronzer worked as an eye shadow.  I had to share, just in case someone (like me) hadn’t thought to use it that way instead of just using it to add a little color to your face.

I ended it with a coat of Mary Kay’s NouriShine’ Lip Gloss in beach bronze.  Another sample Kari sent me and I just ordered from her cuz it’s gorgeous.  I didn’t think to take pictures of that on, I was quickly texting Kari telling her my Mary Kay order as I was trying them.

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Ok, so if you want any of that, I linked to the products, ELF is Eyes Lips Face.  You can get the mascara and eyeliner either at the links above or any store near you, Wal-Mart, Target, etc.

If you don’t have a Mary Kay lady, Kari is wonderful.  I’m not just saying that ‘cuz she’s one of my BFFs. :)   You can find her site here.

Alright, there’s my make up tutorial for the day just because I was tickled with how mine came out this afternoon. :)

Have a great night!

Just to recap for our friendly FCC, neither Mary Kay, Kari, Cover Girl, ELF, L’Oreal, or anyone else mentioned in this post paid me for a review, gave me product for a review, they don’t even know I’m doing a review, until I text Kari and tell her to go read my blog. :)

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Posted by Heather Manning On May - 2 - 2010

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On The Go All Day

Posted by Heather Manning On May - 2 - 2010

Yesterday just felt way too busy and it was emphasized I think by Christiano’s foul mood.  We started out at Kat’s soccer game where she made 2 goals.  That’s a record for her!  She’s now made a goal every game this season.  I think she’s getting the hang of this whole soccer thing. 

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Kat’s in the middle.

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Hanging out with one of her coaches and his daughters while she was out.  Yes, it was windy and cold and yes, she refused to wear her jacket.  Choose your battles I say.  I’ve mentioned before that we play in the middle of corn fields.  There is your proof.  Welcome to Iowa. 

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Alyce coloring.  I just about had a conniption fit when I saw she had grabbed a permanent marker from home to color with.

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Can you see the ticked off at the world-ness in his face?

Let me tell you.  I could not do anything to make that boy happy.  I started out with him in our ERGObaby carrier and he was content until he saw Alyce was coloring.  He wanted to color.  There is no way I’m letting him color with a permanent marker.  He was arching his back and carrying on.  I let him down.  He proceeded to throw himself all over Alyce, upsetting her.  Then he takes off for the field.  He wanted to go out and play with Kat.  I brought him back to me.  Ok, if he can’t play with Kat, he’ll play with the boys who are in the middle of the game behind us.  Brought him back…..50 times….I swear.  Finally I just carried him where he was attempting to fling himself out of my arms.  Screaming.  Throwing a tantrum like I have never seen him throw before.  I lie.  It was similar to the one where I tried to put him to bed without nursing him.  Only this time everyone and their mothers were staring at us.  I walked him over to a field that was empty where he threw himself down and carried on a bit more.  Then tried to get up and go back to Kat’s game.  He was determined to join her team.  I was beyond frustrated.  I knew he was tired.  Her game fell right at naptime.  He was so tired.

After Kat’s game was over, we got back in the car to go to Jordan’s game.  Christiano screamed for a few minutes then went to sleep.  Pato was already at Jordan’s game because it had started at 1.  We got there about 10 minutes before halftime.  I managed to get Christiano out of the car seat and back into the carrier without waking him up.  He stayed asleep the whole game like that.  Insert big sigh of relief here.

When I walked up the fields to Jordan’s game, Jordan is moseying to the bathroom.  Child was moving slow.  I almost went after him and told him to speed it up.  When he took his time coming back, I marched my angry butt over and told him to pick up the pace.  Pato had told me that when Jordan had field time that he wasn’t moving at all.  He was waiting for the ball to come to him and then just kicking it away.  Not going after it. Just standing there.  I’m sure everyone on our side of the field was quite entertained by my pointing down towards where he was playing, waving my arms in the air in the whole what the heck are you doing out there action, at least they couldn’t hear me over the wind.  Nice sweet gentle Heather all amped up from a cranky baby and then watching her son who couldn’t have moved more if he laid down and took a nap on the field.  I was ticked.

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Jordan’s number 19.  That girl, number 27 on the other team?  She is a tough little girl.  We’ve played her every season since the first and that girl has no qualms about playing with the boys.  I LOVE watching her play.  She goes at that ball and attacks it, doesn’t matter who is coming at her or who she’s going to take it from.  Even Mr soccer man, Pato, was commenting on how good she was.  She’s one of 2 girls that play for that team.  The other one is really good too, but this one, she’s just awesome! 

Pato was upset with Jordan too.  This is the first and only game Pato gets to watch Jordan play this season.  It’s the only game that fell on a Saturday, when he’s off work.  The only time he’s gotten to see Jordan’s improvements.  I’ve been bragging about how well Jordan is doing and when Pato, who was so excited to finally get to see him play, goes he sees Jordan moving at a snail’s pace.

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The girls were all soccered out. 

This next picture is a result of Katiana throwing grass and Christiano’s runny nose.  Pato thought it was the funniest thing ever and had to snap a pic.  I actually tried to pull it out and he’s like hold on, leave it, leave it.  Whips my camera out. 

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Mean daddy.  See how tired that poor little guy was?  We put Pato’s hat on him to keep the wind out of his face.  The brim was actually over his face except for this one moment when Pato checked on him and saw this blade of grass sticking out of his nose.  Poor baby.

After the game Pato wanted to go over to Kia and price the new Borregos.  I don’t know how the sales guy was doing his math, but in my head, that car will take an additional 12,000 on to our loan.  He’s all talking about flipping and rebates and our trade in – they are willing to give me 11,500 for my Rondo, that was just bought from them a year ago this month.  It had 18 miles on it when I drove it off the lot and 8,096 miles when I had it at Kia yesterday.  That’s a $6,500 depreciation.  Yikes.  We’ve paid off $3000 this year, so that leaves us $15K on our loan.  The Boreggo Pato was looking was $32,000.  $8000 in rebates and customer loyalty credits.  That takes us down to $24.  Minus the $11500.  $12500.  Added on to my $15K?  $27,500.  Where is he getting a $2K remainder at?  I’m seeing it as us owing a lot more than we do now and I’m not so willing to do that. Pato says my car isn’t big enough but he’s only in it 1 time a week.  I think he should just deal since I like my car and it’s fine for us when Pato is working and not in it.

I’d rather save up, keep our debt to income ratio low and get a house.  Thank you darling.

Speaking of apartment living.  Sometimes it bites.  Pato threw a load of whites in the other evening.  He put them in the dryer before he went to bed.  When he went to get them in the morning, they were gone.  Someone took our whites.  I was ticked.  All of my nursing bras except for 1 were in there.  I have other bras, but when you’re nursing, a nursing bra is a heck of a lot easier than pulling your shoulder strap down and trying to get everything out so baby can nurse. 

I went to the casino last night.  Pato calls and tells me that they brought back the whites……..and threw them all in the garbage.  WTH?  I can understand grabbing them accidently.  But why the he** would you throw them in the trash.  I left a nice note down in the laundry room when I got home last night telling our other neighbors about it. 

Jerks.

At least I have my nursing bras back.

Ok, so back to our day.  After Kia, the girls and Pato wanted the Chinese buffet we always go to.  Bleh.  Ok.  Off we went.  Christiano proceeded to take bites of his food, then open his mouth, let it slide out.  Picked some up off his plate, dropped it on the floor.  He just was being a pain in the butt.  When I stopped him from doing it, he threw a fit that embarrassed me to no end.  Thank God we had both cars.  I told them to finish eating and Christiano and I came home.  I’m not going to subject other people who are trying to have a nice lunch to my son who is in the worst of moods.

I’m glad I never was able to find a sitter last night.  Pato and I were going to go to the casino together.  I would hate to make someone else try to deal with cranky baby.

He’s normally such a good happy baby, unless you put him in a cart or stroller.  I’m not used to him acting like that when we are out and about.

In bed last night, after every one was asleep, Pato and I were talking.  I’m wondering if Christiano isn’t teething or going through a growth spurt.  He’s 14 months.  He’s going to be taller than Alyce if he keeps growing like he does.  She’s 3 and he comes up to her chin already.  She’s not short.

He’s only got 2 teeth on the bottom and 4 on top.  Those all came in at the same time at about 8 months with no other signs of teeth.  He’ll probably get them all in at once like he did the other 6.  I don’t know but here’s to hoping whatever is bothering him is over quickly. 

Today I am planning on a nice relaxing day at home.  Maybe take the kids on a walk.  Jordan is with his dad until about 4.  I need to vacuum the living room, throw their supper dishes from last night in the dishwasher and then we can just play.  Hopefully Christiano wakes up on the right side of the bed today.

Have a great day!

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Ryken’s Bible Handbook

Posted by Heather Manning On May - 2 - 2010

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This book gives students of the Bible a quick overview of every book in the Bible. Leland Ryken’s distinctive trait is a literary approach to the Bible–understanding the Bible as literature. The three authors help shed light on understanding the Bible as the inspired Word of God and as literature by looking at the Bible’s different literary genres: poetry, narrative, wisdom literature, story, parables, and more.

I love this!  Now, obviously I haven’t gotten through the whole Bible since I got the Ryken’s Bible Handbook because I have only had it about a month.  But I have loved what I have read.  The Bible can be a hard read.  Especially the old testament, at least for me.  The new testament has always been easier for me to read and comprehend.

I love how the Ryken’s Bible Handbook goes through the whole Bible.  It starts out each book with the format – ie: Genesis has 50 chapters and 1,533 verses.  Then it goes into the author’s perspective, the implied audience, what unifies the book, special features (ie: Genesis tells us about Adam and Eve, noah, Abraham, Isaac, Jacob, and Joseph.).  It goes on to explian challenges that the reader might face in the book and how to meet those challenges.  Then it goes into a timeline if you will of what you will find in the certain chapters, the history, the form of the book, key places and characters, unifying elements, , tips for reading, and then a quick overview of the book.  It also tells you how to apply the book.  I love this!  It’s in an easy to read and understand format. 

I’ve looked at a lot of how to understand or read through the bible books and they all either are too challenging for me or too simplistic. This one is right in the middle.  I think it’s fabulous and I look forward to getting through the entire Bible with it’s help.  That’s actually on my bucket list.  Read the entire Bible.  I will get it done.

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Thank you to Tyndale Publishing for providing me with a copy of Ryken’s Bible Handbook.

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Why Is God Ignoring Me?

Posted by Heather Manning On May - 1 - 2010

whyisgodignoring me Why Is God Ignoring Me?: What to Do When It Feels Like He’s Giving You the Silent Treatment by Gary Habermas

In times of trouble and suffering, we cry out to God . . . but sometimes it feels like he doesn’t hear. Has he abandoned us just when we need him most? In this new book, scholar, author, and apologist Gary Habermas walks us through what the Bible has to say about suffering and where we can find God in our own times of sorrow and disappointment, and he shares heartfelt personal insights from his own experiences. Why Is God Ignoring Me? gives us the freedom to ask our tough questions . . . And the wisdom to find the answers.

From the Back Cover

In times of trouble and suffering, we cry out to God . . . but sometimes it feels like He doesn’t hear. When we’re walking through pain, it’s easy to feel alone on the journey. If God truly loves us, then why can’t we sense His presence? Has He abandoned us when we need Him most? Or is it possible that He’s speaking into our lives in ways we don’t yet understand?
In Why Is God Ignoring Me? scholar, author, and apologist Gary Habermas walks us through what the Bible has to say about suffering, explains where we can find God in our own times of sorrow and disappointment, and shares heartfelt personal insights from others who’ve been where we are. Why Is God Ignoring Me? gives us the freedom to ask our tough questions . . . and the wisdom to find the answers.

This is a hard review for me to write because I want to absolutely adore every book that I review.  And so far I have.  I couldn’t get into Why Is God Ignoring Me? and I’m not sure why.  It’s not dry.  It seems like a well written book.  I jumped at the chance to review it because I’ve been there.  I’ve been in where I have felt is the depths of despair where I actually turned my back on God because I couldn’t understand why if he loved me so much he would allow me to go through so much pain, why he wasn’t answering my prayers, my calls for help.  Maybe it’s because I’m not in the spot anymore.  I’m happy now.  Or maybe it’s because everything I read was kind of common sense, things that as  Christian, I know in my head, it’s just when you’re in that bottomless pit of unhappiness, pain, and doubt, what you know in your head isn’t always what you feel in your heart.  I don’t know.  It was just a tough read for me to get through.  That doesn’t mean it won’t help you, though.  Check out the other reviews on Amazon , there were people who did enjoy this book, who got useful information out of it. It just ended up being a book that wasn’t on my top list of things that I’ve read.  I don’t know what I was looking for in the book but whatever it was, it didn’t jump out at me and give me the a-ha moment that you search for in a book such as this.  It might for you though.

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Thank you to Tyndale Publishing for providing me with a copy of Why Is God Ignoring Me?: What to Do When It Feels Like He’s Giving You the Silent Treatment.

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I’m Missing Garage Sales

Posted by Heather Manning On May - 1 - 2010

NO!  We have soccer games in two different towns today.  The town right next to us has city wide garage sales.  I don’t suppose I could miss soccer games and go garage saling?  Is that a word?  Spell check is telling me no.  The soccer mom in me is telling me no also.  Kat’s got a game at noon in one town.  Jordan’s game is at 1 in another town.  He has to be there at 12:40.  Kat’s game last 45 minutes.  Math doesn’t add up does it?  Pato and I are splitting up.  As soon as Kat’s game is over, I’m going to zoom over to Jordan’s game.  Maybe I can hit some garage sales after that?

I love garage sales.  I live for garage sales, thrift and consignment stores, I just live for deals period.  My sister in law called me yesterday and told me about one sale that had was full of clothes in Nano’s size.  I was kicking myself for not grabbing more cash from Pato.  I had 10 dollars on me and that’s not serious garage saling cash.  When I go to garage sales I want to fill my car with clothes for the kids for upcoming seasons in different sizes.  It kind of satisfies the shop-a-holic in me.  I used to have a serious problem with shopping before kids.  Actually, it was before I had the other 3 kids.  I was one of those people that bought anything and everything because it was on sale and I saved such and such.   Not taking into account that I didn’t really need it and if I hadn’t bought it I would have saved the whole price.

Finding awesome deals on clothes my kids will actually use fills that void for me.  It’s a void.  I miss shopping all the time.  I miss piling my arms full of the greatest sale finds at the mall.  I miss it.  I don’t go to the mall a lot.  It’s hard for me when I’m there.  I know I don’t need this or that but my inner shopper is calling for me to spend spend spend.  When I do go, I go directly to the store I plan to shop at and directly out.  No stopping at go because there is no collecting $200 at the mall.

I’ve mentioned being a cheapskate and not buying myself a lot on my blog before.  That’s why.  I was a horrible impulse shopper and I drove myself broke.  I don’t ever want to do it again.

Have you ever read the Shopaholic Books by Sophie Kinsella?  I was totally Becky Brandon (Bloomwood).  But I’ve changed.  Now I just impulse buy on $.25 – $1.00 items 3 months a year. :)

I told you yesterday that my parakeet passed away during the night.  Alyce was like me yesterday, moping around, bummed that our friend was gone.  The only difference was she kept begging for me to bring her parakeet back.  I don’t know when she decided Huck was hers, but she missed him too.  I was feeling down too, missing the sound of his chirps that filled our home all day. I missed our gerbil, his cage was empty, but there was this huge void in the house.  Huck was noisy.  Always letting his thoughts be known to everyone in the house.  It was really really really quiet without him.  I decided to go look at the parakeets at PetSmart.  I actually looked all over the internet for a breeder near us.  I assume there aren’t a lot of parakeet breeders in Des Moines because I found them in Minnesota and Illinois, but nothing near me.  I called Petco and Petsmart and asked about the parakeets they had.  Petco had no idea what the age of their birds were.  No they don’t clip wings.  No, they don’t sex the parakeets.  No they don’t know anything regarding the animals they sell.  I wanted a young bird.  One that will live that 10 – 15 years that they say they can.  Not one that I have no idea how old it is and it could up and die on me at any moment.

Petsmart said that they don’t get any documentation regarding the age of the birds when they get them but that the birds they have look young.  Yes, they clip the wings.  So, Alyce, Nano, and I went to look at the pretty parakeets after I did some research on what to look for at the pet store.  They had them separated by color.  3-4 birds in a large cage.  All of them were active, alert, and I agree they are young, just by the difference in size between the full grown parakeet we had and the ones we were looking at.

Alyce wanted a yellow one.  I wanted this gorgeous aqua one.  We got the yellow.  She didn’t want the ones with black markings.  She wanted the plain yellow one.  We got the plain yellow one.  I want to get a bigger cage so maybe we could introduce a friend for Lemon.  She can be all social like parakeets are supposed to be.  Right now the cage just isn’t big enough for 2.  Think I could find one at a garage sale? :)

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That is lemon meringue.  Lemon for short.  Do you see the strawberry shortcake theme?  (Huckleberry Pie – Lemon Meringue?)  I think that proves that I have a problem with impulse control doesn’t it. *sigh*  I just missed Huck and Alyce was depressed, I wanted her to smile.

I’m so nervous.  I know I took care of Huck.  The kids weren’t in charge.  I changed his food when it was low (usually every 2 days – he’d eat it out of the tube, but also empty it into the little dish that came attached to the cage, it didn’t take him long to empty the tube into that), changed his water every day.  I changed the papers every other day.  I don’t cook with Teflon.  The air conditioner hasn’t been on.  Nothing is ever sprayed in the room where the cage is. I know he was taken care of.  I don’t know what happened to him.  Like I said in my post yesterday, I have no idea how old Huck was when we got him.  The lady just didn’t want him.  Her adult kids had left him there and she wasn’t going to take care of him.

Alyce wanted a new hamster when we went to the pet store, but I’m sticking by the no small rodents rule.  It broke my heart when our gerbil had a stroke and there was nothing I could do.

Lemon seems so much more tame already than Huck was after the whole time that I worked with him.  She steps up on my finger.  She’ll stand there unless I try to slowly move my hand.  Then she uses her beak to escape to the little perch on the gravel holder.  The only thing that Huck would stand for was me sticking my hands in the cage to change his food and water.  If I even stuck my finger on the perch near him, he took off like a bat out of you know where.

I’m nervous because she hasn’t eaten yet.  At least I don’t think she has.  I’ve been monitoring the food level in that tube behind her.  I did shake some out into a little dish too that’s in the cage.  I wanted her to be able to find it.  I haven’t noticed a change.  But, all the research I’ve read said that’s normal, leave her alone for a bit to get used to her surroundings and then to just keep approaching her slowly, speaking quietly, and she will get less nervous.  I didn’t have to go through this with Huck.  He already had his cage he was used to when I went and got him.

I’m going to be nervous until she starts devouring her food and throwing it out of the cage like Huck did.  You know a normal messy happy parakeet.

Happy (i)NSD day to all my fellow digiscrappers.  I got nothing new, but I did put my store on sale for 50% off through the 5th.  I was over at DST looking and saw so many new names and didn’t see a lot of my old designers.  Where did everyone go? :(   And welcome to the newbies!

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