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Archive for May 11th, 2009

So frustrated

Posted by Heather Manning On May - 11 - 2009

Let me show you a couple of layouts before I get more frustrated by explaining why I am frustrated.

Here’s a layout I did with my newest kit in the store.

My mama was mighty impressed that I used that frame.  It’s from an old building on their property that I took a picture of last summer and have been waiting to be inspired to use.  LOL

Here’s what the kit looks like –

(click here to see the preview full sized so it doesn’t look jagged) It’s called Summer Meadow.  There’s a sample bracket quick page on my CT blog if you’d like it.

And this layout –

Isn’t that fun?  The kit is a mini from Maelia Designs from the So You Think You Can Design contest.  Couldn’t help myself, had to grab it!

On the frustration.  Banks!  Car loans!  AGH! I’m going to need some cheap term life insurance quotes by the time this is done.  Ok, so we’re trying to build credit to buy a house soon on our own, no help from his uncles, etc etc.  We were approved for a $17,000 loan for a new car or $8000 for a used.  Either way, not a heck of a lot to choose from when you need a car that seats 6 – 3 of those being in car seats.

So, we’re looking at 2008 new Dodge Grand Caravans that were marked down to $15,000 at this one dealer.  Well, by the time the bank had all the paper work done for the loan, they sold the last one.  Well, they have a used one with 22,000 miles for that price with all the xtras, but the bank says it needs to have less than 20,000 miles.  Ok, so we start looking at the KIAs.  (This is the third go round with the bank at this point, and God only knows how many with the dealers.  This is my mother’s day present BTW – and that has come and gone.)  I decided I love the KIA Ronda.  It’s a 2008 has 18 miles on it.  Beautiful red color.  Not quite a van, not really a station wagon.  It’s $22,000 with a $6000 rebate.  We’re all happy, we’ve decided.  Pato calls the bank, well, they think that car should only be worth $10,000 and they will not pay one penny more for it.  HUH?  A 2008 that is brand new, never owned, only test drove – $10,000???  He’s not sure what the next step is.  We just know we want this car.  So, he has to really talk to the bank and the dealer and see if a compromise can be reached.  (Should I say I really want the car because I just love it.  Pato wants the caravan with more room.)

Ok, so those of you who have bought new cars, what do we do now?  Is there any talking the bank into it?  Am I just out of luck?  Do I start looking at the Grand Caravans again?  I just loved this car so much and it was right in the range the bank told us, frustrated, kind of feel like a good cry at this point.  Tired of getting my hopes up.

I’ve got pictures I need to get off of my camera, but I’m nursing Christiano right now.  Those will have to be for tomorrow.

Have a great day!

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My kids are always a mess

Posted by Heather Manning On May - 11 - 2009

Do you have children like my girls?  If one of them gets a pen, the other is covered in decorations that the first one choosing.  One time they took one of my custom rubber stamps, you know the ones with your name, address, business name etc?  They took that and stamped each other all up.  Then they got creative and stamped their brother up.  Even after a good long soak in the bath tub they still had visible traces of our home address there.  Oh well, at least if they got lost someone would know where to return them to.

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My parents traveling all over

Posted by Heather Manning On May - 11 - 2009

I feel like my parents have been to the Outer Banks and back this year already.  They just got back from Tennessee and Alabama and tomorrow they are off to Washington.  I can’t remember why now.  I want to say it’s for my mom’s cousin’s birthday party.  I wish I had the extra cash right now but if I want a new car, I am not going anywhere for a long long time.  LOL

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Ay yi yi

Posted by Heather Manning On May - 11 - 2009

Someone pull out the weight loss pills, treadmill, weights, whatever.  I saw video of myself at my parents and EW!  Mind you, I was laying in a hospital bed after just giving birth, but not pretty people.  My face was so puffy and icky.  I need to get my butt walking or it’s gonna get bigger man.  Lucky for me, Pato gave me a card on Mother’s day that said I needed a babe on board sign, not a baby on board.  ROFL  At least he still thinks I’m pretty!

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Christiano

Posted by Heather Manning On May - 11 - 2009

You know when this child loses the boob at night, I get no sleep.  It’s a bad habit, I know.  But if I don’t let him nurse and sleep, I get no sleep and I have 3 other kids to take care.  Can’t be a walking zombie mommy.  I think I need to shove one of those baby bed wedges to keep him on his side.  Now that he’s getting a little bigger, he won’t stay put.  He flings himself all over the place while kicking those little chunky legs.  Kind of cute in the afternoon, not so cute at 2 in the morning. 

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Take me as I am

Posted by Heather Manning On May - 11 - 2009

I guess.  While nursing, I can’t take a product like nuphedra.  And it’s still really too windy to take Christiano out walking.  If the kids would keep the living room picked up, I could do the Wii fit a lot more.  By the time they go to bed and it’s picked up here, I’m just too tired to exercise on top of the rest.  What does a mommy who just had a baby do?  Consol herself in brownies of course.

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