Not Everyone's Mama

to a 4 year old that her brother is going rollar skating with their cousin for the cousin’s birthday party but that she isn’t going.  (  I can’t skate right now – I was never that good at it anyway – and I can’t risk falling and breaking something and hurting the baby.  Katiana has never rollar skated, which means she would need help.  I couldn’t do that.  My sister in law and brother are going to be busy enough as it is watching their own 2 and all the birthday party kids.  So, Kat would just be sitting there wondering why she couldn’t skate with all the big kids. 

So the decision is that my sister in law is picking Jordan up on their way and they’ll drop him off when they are done.  Taylor’s family birthday party is tomorrow, so Kat will be part of that.  I just know she’s going to be so disappointed.  (  I’d rather have her here where I can distract her than at the rink where she’ll just be watching the kids feeling bad.  So, here’s hoping that I can distract her.

I’m going to tell her that only the big kids can go to this but that she’ll play with all the cousin’s tomorrow at Uncle Josh’s house. 

I still feel bad. 

So, Mr Man has been going to the gym to work out on their weight equipment during his breaks every day.  Must be nice to have someone who will watch your kids (IE: their mother) while you can go work out, but she has no one to watch the kids so she can go work out.  What a beautiful world we live in huh?

Actually, Mr Man is in the doghouse right now as it is.  LOL  Thursday I was cranky.  I was reading a book while putting Alyce to sleep for her nap when Katiana walked in.  I said, where’s daddy?  She said, he left with Omar.  HUH?  He just left.  Didn’t tell me he was leaving, didn’t tell me where he was going, just left.  Yep.  Once again, must be nice to just know there is someone here to take care of your kids who never has any plans so you can just leave without saying anything to anybody.  I was ticked man.  Let’s see me try to walk out of the house without children without saying anything.  It would be 20 questions played out as 100 questions, and could imagine how many times my cell phone would ring??  He doesn’t understand why I’m ticked.  And you know what, I’m going to stay ticked until he understands why I am.  How childish am I?  I don’t care.  He’s been acting like a fool since maybe the 2nd week he got home from Mexico.  Told you everything I put in that man was gone after 12 weeks with his mama.  He’s got some retraining ahead of him.  As in, you don’t just walk out of the house when you have 3 kids and stay gone for 7 hours without telling me where your going.  Thank you. 

Alright, I feel better now, knew you all would understand.  I think I’m having some serious mood swings lately too from these darn hormones.  I tell you, he can’t do anything right right now by me.  I’m just cranky.  Cranky cranky cranky.  And after his little stunt on Thursday I’m not trying to hide it.  ROFL  Wonder if when I get out of the first trimester in 2 weeks if I’ll go back to normal.  I doubt it.  If I remember correctly, I tend to be cranky when I’m pregnant.  ROFL  Not with everyone, just Pato.  Like, dude, you did this to me AGAIN!  ROFL

Alright, I need to go jump in the shower and get ready for whatever I’m going to do with the girls today.  I just told Pato that I might take them to McDonald’s and actually eat inside.  (We never do that, I always bring it home, easier to corral the kids at home than in a restaurant.  LOL)  But, I’m thinking we might go to Taco Bell instead.  That sounds really good.  Mom, coming into town?  Want to go to Taco Bell?  LOL

Have a great day!

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