If you are in a relationship, have you noticed as the years go by that the romance has faded? Pato has never been big on the romance, but I miss it! We need some more romantic ideas!
He has done a couple of things that stick out in my mind. When I was pregnant with Katiana, he came home on Christmas Eve from work. I was working on the computer, he walked straight to me, dropped to his knees, handed me a ring box, and asked me to marry him. It may not sound all that romantic, but because I know that romance doesn’t come easy for him, it was very romantic to me. I had expected him to just come out one day and say, “Let’s go get married.” and that would be it. So to have him on his knees with the ring just touched my heart.
With 3 kids, it’s hard to find time for a lot of romance. But, he’s even tried when the kids were up to set the scene. He’s made dinner for us and then lit some romantic candles and waited on all of us so that I didn’t have to do anything. And they kids don’t realize that he is trying to set the scene for something else!
It’s just so sweet when he does things like that. They don’t happen very often, but I treasures the times that he has tried.
On the flip side, I am so glad that we worked through our problems since I last posted. Dealing with a break up of a marriage is one of the hardest things I have ever had to do. I don’t talk about my relationship with Jordan’s dad very often. But, even though I know I made the right decision for my son and for myself, I agonized for a long time over I made the right choice for him. I would have gone through hell and back for Jordan, and at times I think I did. But, I had to decide if the situation I was in was one I wanted my son to be raised in. If I wanted my son to grow up thinking the way his father treated me was the way he should be treating women when he got older. My answer was no, but it was hard to put Jordan through the divorce, even at the young age of 18 months.
But back to more pleasant things, I am so glad I have Pato. I couldn’t imagine my life without him. He is my heart and my rock. And the father of my children. I love you, Pato!
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I wish I could remember what romance was. I’m glad that things are going smoother for you two. Sounds like he was quite romatantic when he purposed.
Enjoy your day and weekend.
how sweet!!! ok, Pato gets points for that!!